Red-rock canyons stretching to distant snowy mountains at Canyonlands National Park, Utah
Canyonlands National Park, Utah. Photo by Daphne.

EXPANSIVE HEALING

What We Offer


Every path starts with your TEAM. Begin free, practice weekly, or go deep. Read about each one below and choose the step that fits where you are today.

FREE CLASS

Meet Your TEAM

Your first look at the four characters inside you.

Who it's for
Anyone curious about why they think, feel, and react the way they do

What you get
One 30-minute video class you can take anytime

Why now
Take your first step today, out of Comfort City and toward your positive growth

Read more: what you'll learn

Meet the four TEAM players who shape how you think, feel, and respond: your Brilliant Strategist (#1), Fierce Protector (#2), Joy Generator (#3), and Wise Sage (#4). You'll leave knowing each one by name, with a simple way to call your whole TEAM together when life gets loud.

Inspired by Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor's Whole Brain Living.

FREE FOR A LIMITED TIME

The 21 Day Break the Dance Challenge

Three weeks to recognize the toxic Dance, respond with your TEAM, and step out of the Dance for good. It's our first Seeker's Challenge, with more offered throughout the year.

Who it's for
Anyone worn down by a hurtful pattern with someone in their life

What you get
About 15 minutes a day for 21 days: A short video lesson and a worksheet each day

Why now
Free for a limited time

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Week 1 β€” Recognize

  • Day 1: Welcome to the Dance β€” Name the pattern that keeps pulling you back in, and set your intention for the next 21 days.
  • Day 2: Meet the Cast of Antagonists β€” Meet the cast of characters who lead the Dance, so you can spot them on sight.
  • Day 3: The 3 Ms β€” Put a name to three tactics that leave you feeling guilty and off-balance.
  • Day 4: The 3 Ds β€” Learn to see three more tactics clearly, right when they show up.
  • Day 5: Gaslighting and the Brain β€” Discover why gaslighting feels so confusing, and why your own memory deserves your trust.
  • Day 6: Wounded People Wound People β€” Find a way to hold compassion for the people who hurt you, while keeping yourself safe.
  • Day 7: The Dance Is Yours to Leave β€” Close Week 1 with a fresh look at the choice that's always been yours.

Week 2 β€” Respond

  • Day 8: Refresher on Your TEAM β€” Reconnect with your four TEAM players and get them ready for the work ahead.
  • Day 9: What Your TEAM #2 Does in the Dance β€” See your Fierce Protector in action, and learn to work with them as an ally.
  • Day 10: Your Wise Sage and the Principle-Centered Question β€” Meet the one question that brings your Wise Sage forward in a heated moment.
  • Day 11: Your Sphere of Power and Influence β€” Discover where your energy makes a real difference, and where you can set it down.
  • Day 12: Your Orb of Light β€” Learn a calming practice that helps you stay centered around difficult people.
  • Day 13: The Troll Test β€” Gain a quick filter for deciding which words deserve your time and attention.
  • Day 14: From Awareness to Action β€” Turn two weeks of insight into your first steady steps.

Week 3 β€” Repel

  • Day 15: Protecting Your Energy Field β€” Build daily habits that keep your energy yours.
  • Day 16: Sacred Words as Toxic Tactics (Part 1) β€” Recognize when loving, sacred language gets used to control you.
  • Day 17: Sacred Words as Toxic Tactics (Part 2) β€” Reclaim those words and their true meaning for your own life.
  • Day 18: Draw Boundaries, Not Blood β€” Learn to set boundaries that hold, with calm and kindness.
  • Day 19: You Are Not Alone: The Seeker Community β€” Find your people, and see how much stronger the work feels together.
  • Day 20: Repetition: The Tool Becomes a Habit β€” Turn your new tools into habits that show up on their own.
  • Day 21: The Dance Is Behind You. The Quest Is Ahead. β€” Celebrate how far you've come and see the road ahead.

WEEKLY MEMBERSHIP Β· NOW OPEN

The Seeker's Circle

A new lesson every Sunday, all year, walking one chapter of the Seeker's Journey each month together.

Who it's for
Seekers ready to keep growing, one week at a time

What you get
A new video lesson every Sunday, a printable and fillable worksheet for each lesson, and a growing community of Seekers walking beside you

Why now
Founding rates of $15 a month or $150 a year, available through January 17

Read more: what you'll learn

Each lesson goes deeper than the free Challenge and ends with a practice to carry into your week.

Orientation (October) β€” Becoming a Seeker

  • 3 Motivations to Become a Seeker β€” Name what brought you here, and put it somewhere you'll see it every day.
  • Learn Something New Every Day β€” Begin the simple daily habit at the heart of every Seeker's practice.
  • What Is Your Intention for Improving Your Toolkit? β€” Take an honest look at what you want from this work, and why it matters to you.
  • My Hero's Quest: My Mosaic β€” "Remember Me" β€” See your whole life as a Mosaic, every piece included, and call back a part of yourself that's been waiting.

November β€” Chapter 1: Chaos in Comfort City

  • Your Sphere of Power and Influence β€” Go beyond the basics to map where your power truly lives in your own relationships.
  • Toxic People β€” Gain clarity on the patterns that drain you, and the steady footing to meet them as your best self.
  • Your TEAM Dealing with the Cast β€” Watch your whole TEAM take on a cast of familiar characters, and leave with a plan for when you meet them.
  • Gaslighting β€” Go deeper into what keeps the fog in place, and strengthen your trust in your own experience.
  • The Troll Test β€” Put the Troll Test to work on the comments, calls, and messages in your own life.
  • Bonus: Compassion Without Obligation β€” Learn to keep your heart open while choosing freely what you'll give, just in time for the holidays.

December β€” Chapter 2: Change Is Inevitable β€” Let the Quest Begin!

  • Our TEAM and Holiday Traditions β€” Look at your traditions with fresh eyes, and choose which ones still bring you joy.
  • Our TEAM at Holiday Celebrations β€” Head into gatherings with a plan for showing up as your best, highest self.
  • Celebrating Those Who Have Passed with Our TEAM β€” Honor the loved ones missing from your table this year, with joy alongside the grief.
  • Flexing Your Gratitude Muscles β€” Build a gratitude practice that carries you into the new year.

January–September β€” One Chapter of Your Healing Journey Each Month

  • January β€” Chapter 3: Resistance on the TEAM
  • February β€” Chapter 4: Seeking the Wisdom Keepers
  • March β€” Chapter 5: Entering the World of [Self] Discovery
  • April β€” Chapter 6: Foundation for Transformation
  • May β€” Chapter 7: Taking the High Road Through the Canyon of Courage
  • June β€” Chapter 8: Climactic Crossroads
  • July β€” Chapter 9: Will You Claim Your Prize?
  • August β€” Chapter 10: Taking the High Road Home
  • September β€” Chapter 11: Becoming the Butterfly

Weekly lesson titles are added as each month opens.

Want to start smaller? Begin with the free Meet Your TEAM class.

OPENS JANUARY 17

Quest I: The 12 Chapters of a Healing Quest

Twelve weeks deep into your own story with your TEAM, following the Hero's Journey from Comfort City all the way home.

Who it's for
Seekers ready to go deep into their own story

What you get
Twelve chapters, one each week, with your whole TEAM

Why now
Join the waitlist to be the first to hear when enrollment opens

Read more: what you'll learn

πŸ₯š The Egg Stage β€” Awakening

  • Chapter 1: Chaos in Comfort City β€” Recognize the moment your old ways of coping stopped working, and open the door to another way forward.
  • Chapter 2: Change Is Inevitable β€” Let the Quest Begin! β€” Commit to your Quest, guided by the principles that live in your heart.
  • Chapter 3: Resistance on the TEAM β€” Learn to welcome every voice on your TEAM, doubt included, and keep moving forward.

πŸ› The Caterpillar Stage β€” Growing

  • Chapter 4: Seeking the Wisdom Keepers β€” Find the teachers, mentors, and communities who can light your way.
  • Chapter 5: Entering the World of [Self] Discovery β€” Discover the power you hold over your inner world, and begin rewriting old scripts.
  • Chapter 6: Foundation for Transformation β€” Lay the groundwork for lasting change and turn toward your authentic self.

🫘 The Chrysalis Stage β€” Transforming

  • Chapter 7: Taking the High Road Through the Canyon of Courage β€” Find the courage to face what you've been carrying, guided by your principles.
  • Chapter 8: Climactic Crossroads β€” Own your whole story, free of shame, so you can write the next chapter.
  • Chapter 9: Will You Claim Your Prize? β€” Watch your new skills become habits, and claim the person you've become.

πŸ¦‹ The Butterfly Stage β€” Emerging

  • Chapter 10: Taking the High Road Home β€” Return to your world transformed, living your truth with compassion and healthy boundaries.
  • Chapter 11: Becoming the Butterfly β€” Test your new wings, and fly through life's storms with confidence in your TEAM and your tools.
  • Chapter 12: Home Sweet Home! β€” Come full circle and discover the legacy your healing creates.

Want to start smaller? Begin with the free Meet Your TEAM class.

COMING IN 2027

More Ways to Walk the Journey

Quest II
After healing comes abundance: A second 12-chapter Quest that brings your TEAM into every area of your life.

1:1 Coaching
Your healing, personally guided, TEAM Meeting by TEAM Meeting. For Seeker's Circle members and Quest I graduates.

Freed Spirits β€” The 12 Chapters of My Healing Quest
Daphne Petty Fox's teaching memoir: The true story of loss, love, and the healing quest that became Expansive Healing.

Coming in 2027

Wondering where to start?

Begin with the free Meet Your TEAM class. Every other path builds on it.

Heal Yourself. Heal Your World.